AUTHOR ARCHIVES: Phil
5 Helpful Tips for Creating a Cybersafe Home
Posted by PhilAs you know by now Ridgecrest Summer Camps has taken a step forward in partnering with you the parent as you invest in your children, point them to Jesus, and love them as they grow up in a difficult time. “This generation of parents is the first to face the challenge of helping our children make the most of their virtual space while keeping them safe in it. If you’re still getting your footing in virtual parenting, don’t worry. InternetSafety.com has the following tips to help ensure that your child’s online experience remains positive.” We don’t claim to have all the answers here at Ridgecrest Summer Camps, but we do want to help point you to some of the knowledgeable professionals regarding these touchy issues. Here are some suggestions as you protect your family online…
1. Become a net-savvy parent
The best safeguard against online dangers is being informed. Jump in and learn the basics of the Internet—read articles, take a class, and talk to other parents. A good place to start is www.websitebuilders.com. You don’t have to be an expert to have a handle on your child’s online world.
2. “Chat” with your kids
Develop an open dialogue so that you can talk with your kids about the benefits and dangers of the Internet. Cultivate an interest in their online activities—their favorite Web sites, online games, and interests. And don’t be afraid to ask your children who they are talking to online and what they are talking about.
3. Agree on a game plan
Use the InternetSafety.com Gameplan™ to formally agree on your family’s guidelines for using the Internet. Post them near the family computer as a reminder. Ensure that your kids know to never share personal information on the Internet and that they should tell you about any online activity or contact that makes them uncomfortable.
4. Protect your computer
Take advantage of the software that exists to help parents manage their children’s computer experience. In only a few minutes, parental control software like Safe Eyes can block inappropriate websites, restrict the amount of time that your kids use the Internet and monitor their Instant Messenger chats to protect against predators.
5. Explore the Internet as a family
With a game plan and a protected computer, you can now encourage your family to take advantage of all that the Internet has to offer. Take a genuine interest in what your kids are doing and stay engaged with them online.
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A Good Read for Parents
Posted by PhilWe at Ridgecrest Summer Camps are just as devoted to you as a parent as we are to your kids as our campers. Raising kids can be incredibly challenging, and we want to stand by you as you tackle the most important feat a parent can attempt…being a parent. There are TONS of books on parenting…which one’s can you trust? This is a place where we want you to be able to share books that have helped you. (Please share below in the comment section). Below are also some of the books that we recommend from personal experience as well as from being in the camping industry for many years. Please comment on the books that you found helpful! For your convenience, you can even purchase the books below by simply clicking on the link provided.
- Grace Based Parenting by Tim Echols
- Parent Fuel by Barry St. Clair – Most parents ask, “How do I help my kids turn out right?” This book suggests a better question: “How do I help my kids love Jesus more?”
- Captivating by John and Stasi Eldridge
- Strengthen Yourself in the Lord by Bill Johnson – How to release the hidden power of God in your life.
- Here Comes Heaven by Mike Seth. A Kid’s guide to God’s supernatural power!
- Every Young Man’s Battle – Strategies for victory in the real world of sexual temptation.
- Every Young Woman’s Battle – Guarding your mind, heart and body in a sex-saturated world.
- Wild at Heart by John Eldridge. A battle to fight, an adventure to live, a beauty to rescue — these are the dreams and desires written on the heart of every boy.
- Boundaries with Kids by Cloud. When to say yes, when to say no to help your children gain control of their lives.
- Going Public by Donna Hatasaki – Your Child can thrive in Public School
- Christian Childrearing and Personality Development by Paul Meier
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Internet Safety
Posted by PhilI would go as far as to say that every family that has a computer in their home must have some sort of filtering strategy. As much as we may not want to admit it, our children are being aggressively pursued online. Experts say that right now there are about 1.5 million sexual predators online. We would strongly urge you to educate your self further, and take action in your home to protect your children. Here are a few resources that may help you. Please know that we are committed to helping you, and will be sure to update you as we learn of more helpful tools.
WEBSITES:
5 Internet Safety Tips – learn how to create a cyber safe home!
Internet Monitoring Family Gameplan – visit this site to learn 10 steps to protect your family.
SafeEyes – is the #1 rated internet filtering software. Visit this website to learn more. If you prefer a different product, thats great! But please make it a priority to protect your family.
10 signs of Internet Abuse – more ways you can educate yourself and proactively fight for your family.
GetNetWise.org – GetNetWise is a public service brought to you by a wide range of Internet industry corporations and public interest organizations.
VIDEOS:
Watch Video: How do I protect myself from internet predators? Is it ok for him to surf the internet unsupervised? Watch this short video to learn more about these questions, and other like them (www.iQuestions.com)
Watch Video: I believe in monitoring what my children watch on TV. But, is it possible to be too controlling? (Ted Baehr, www.iQuestions.com)
Watch Video: What are some fun ways that I can help develop my kids’ media discernment? (Ted Baehr, www.iQuestions.com)
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